2025 Reflections

As 2025 comes to an end, I wanted to take some time to reflect on my reading life and the goals I set for myself this year.

One of my main goals for 2025 was to continue setting my Goodreads reading goal to one so I could focus on quality over quantity. This approach truly worked for me. Even without chasing a number, 2025 became my second-highest reading year since I started tracking my reading in 2017.

I also wanted to become more comfortable DNF’ing books that did not work for me. This year, I was much more free about putting books down even ones I had purchased. Life is too short to push through a mediocre book when there are so many great ones out there. This mindset shift helped me enjoy reading more and focus on quality rather than obligation.

Another goal was to be more mindful and selective about the books I purchased. I did not follow this as closely at the beginning of the year, but I became much more intentional with my purchases during the second half of 2025. That alone made a noticeable difference in how I approached my reading.

I also set a goal to finish my 2025 NetGalley reads before the end of the year and I am happy to say I crushed this goal by November. Clearing that list felt incredibly satisfying and removed a lot of lingering pressure.

When it came to social media and blogging, my goal was to post when I wanted to so I could avoid burnout. To be honest, I did experience burnout with both this year. With Instagram and TikTok, I allowed myself to step back and not post during those periods, which actually helped. As for my blog, I experimented quite a bit. I temporarily switched platforms, adjusted my posting format, and changed how often I post. While I still feel some burnout and am not getting the same level of satisfaction I once did, I am learning to accept that this is okay.

Looking Ahead to 2026
I am going into 2026 with more intention and less pressure. For now, that feels exactly where I need to be.

October Favorites 📖💅

October flew by and I can’t believe we’re already in the final month of fall! This month came with some truly stellar reads, but it was also when I had the most DNFs. I’ve learned that if I’m not hooked within the first few chapters or first 30 pages, it’s best to move on, and it has made reading so much more enjoyable overall.

📚 Favorite Reads of the Month

Instead of choosing just one, I wanted to highlight my three five-star reads from October. Full reviews can be found on Goodreads:

The Mating Game by Lana Ferguson – Thank you Berkley Romance for the free ARC, releases December 2.

Mate by Ali Hazelwood – Target edition

Secret Haven by Catherine Cowles

💅 Favorite Manicure

Lights Lacquer The Restricted Section

Lights Lacquer’s The Restricted Section is a deep gray-green polish with a fine shimmer finish. I was surprised by how much I loved this one since shimmers are usually out of my comfort zone, but it perfectly captured the fall and spooky vibes this month.

2023 Year in Review & 2024 Reading Goals

2023 marked a distinctive chapter in my reading journey. It was a year filled with bookish events and meeting my favorite authors which was a highlight. I’m hopeful to continue this trend in 2024. One significant change I noticed is that my preferred reading genres have refined in 2023, gravitating towards romance, thrillers, and fantasy. This shift in my reading tastes isn’t necessarily negative, but it shows my evolution of what I prefer to read.

Reflecting on my 2023 reading goals:

1. GoodReads Challenge: Set at 1 for fifth consecutive year to prioritize reading what I enjoy. This was a success in terms of quantity as this was the second best reading year.

2. South Asian Authors: This goal led me to discover new authors which was great.

2023 Accomplishments

• Successfully finished all the 2023 releases on my NetGalley shelf and reaching 94% NetGalley ratio by year-end.

• Finished all my BOTM selections without carrying over to next year.

• Participated in the 23 for 23 challenge, focusing on BIPOC authors and voices, a challenging but rewarding experience.

• Wrote a GoodReads review for every book I read in 2023.

2024 Goals

I’ve decided not to set specific reading goals this year. Instead, I plan to continue and deepen the intentions I’m already engaging in:

• Keeping my GoodReads goal at 1 for the sixth consecutive year, focusing on quality over quantity.

• Allowing myself the freedom to not finish books that don’t captivate me.

Cheers to a year filled with stories that inspire and connect us!

Favorite Books of 2023

These are my top 12 favorite reads of 2023! The books are in order of when I read them. These were all 5-star reads. I considered what I read this year regardless of the publication date.

True Love Experiment by Christina Lauren (now my all-time favorite CLO book and second book in DNADuo)
Things We Hide From The Light by Lucy Score (now my all-time favorite Lucy Score book and second book in Knockemout series)
Fourth Wing by Rebecca Yarros (favorite fantasy)
How Not To Drown In A Glass Of Water by Angie Cruz (favorite backlist literary fiction)
The Only One Left by Riley Sager (second all-time favorite Riley Sager book)
Drowning by TJ Newman (new-to-me thriller author favorite)
Pretty Girls by Karin Slaughter (favorite backlist thriller)
Mixed Signals by BK Borision (favorite sunshine-sunshine romance and new-to-me author I discovered)
The Art of Scandal by Regina Black (one of my favorite debut authors)
After That Night by Karin Slaughter (favorite book in a series I haven’t completely read)
You, Again by Kate Goldbeck (one of my favorite debut authors)
This Could Be Us by Kennedy Ryan (favorite 2024 release I can’t wait for everyone to read)

A few observations about my 2023 reading:

  • Of my top 12, I met all these authors except for Rebecca Yarros and Kate Goldbeck.
  • Lucy Score was the top author I read this year with 5 books.
    The top genres I read this year were romance, contemporary, and mystery.
  • According to my years books.com, my reading vibes were “adventurous.”

What was one of your favorite books of 2023?

5 Ways To Kick Your Reading Slump To The Curb

Reading slumps…it happens to the best of us. Whether you are a professional reader or a novice, it happens to everyone at some point. Sometimes reading what would be passion then becomes a chore or something you dread. But never fear! Here are some helpful ways to get out of your slump.

What are other ways you try to get out of reading slumps? Share in the comments below.

5 Helpful Tips To Cull Down Your TBR List

Every bookish person I know has a never-ending TBR list. Sometimes looking at your TBR list can be quite daunting whether it’s a super long list on GoodReads or maybe you have huge piles of unread books at home staring at you and making you feel guilty. If your TBR list is causing you stress and turning you off from reading, then it’s time to clean it up a bit. Here are some tips to help cull down your TBR list and focus more on quality vs. quantity:

What tactics do you use to cull down your TBR list?

Love or Hate Audiobooks?

Do you listen to audiobooks? I started listening to audiobooks a couple of years ago (back in 2017). At first, I had mixed feelings about them, but now, I like them! I still prefer reading physical books and ebooks over listening to audiobooks, but nowadays, I do like to look into audiobooks as an option too.

If you’re on the fence about listening to audiobooks, here are some pros and cons to help you decide if they’re right for you to try out!

Do you like audiobooks? Why or why not?